How to Celebrate Grandparents Day 2020

While we know that you celebrate your Grandparents on the regular, the first Sunday after Labor Day, we collectively celebrate all of the wonderful Grandmothers and Grandfathers out there on National Grandparents Day.

September 13, 2020, is the day on which the holiday falls this year. 

But don’t fret, we’ve covered all the bases so you don’t have to!

We’re talking:  

  • a brief history
  • COVID friendly ways to celebrate your grandparents or any grandparent figures in your life
  • how to write the perfect card or letter to melt their hearts

Let’s get into it!

A Brief History

Grandparents Day began in 1969 when 9-year-old Russell Capper sent President Nixon a letter containing his suggestion for a singular day dedicated to grandparents. Little Russell received a corresponding letter on June 12, 1969, from Rose Mary Woods – the President’s Personal Secretary – that read,  

“Dear Russell,
Thank you for your letter to President Nixon. Your suggestion regarding a Grandparent’s Day is appreciated, but the President ordinarily issues proclamations designating periods for special observance only when a Congressional resolution authorizes him to do so.


With best wishes,
Sincerely,
Rose Mary Woods
Personal Secretary to the President.”

While this did not directly lead to the National Grandparents Day that we celebrate today, it certainly sparked the match. 

Next, Marian McQuade steps in with a desire to educate younger generations about the importance of seniors and the contributions and sacrifices they have made throughout history. She also began urging youths to “adopt” a grandparent in order to get to know them and learn about their lives, things they’ve seen and experienced, their struggles and challenges, and things they’d like to see happen in the future. 

McQuade was officially recognized by the U.S. Senate and by President Jimmy Carter as the founder of National Grandparents Day. However, the holiday was not formally celebrated until September 1979, after President Carter signed the proclamation in August of 1978. 

Don’t worry young Russell, we remember you! 

Now onto the fun stuff…

COVID-Friendly Celebration Ideas

Even with COVID-19 putting a pretty big damper on just about everything, there are still plenty of ways to show your grandparents just how much you love, appreciate, and admire them.

Video Chats

two men chatting over video call

Talking is great, but take it from these grandparents, a video chat can be more than just a quick catch up!

Pat Walsh, who lives in Meadia Heights in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, hangs out with her grandchildren on FaceTime. She reads them stories, plays virtual hide and seek (Wait, what? Yes! Virtual hide and seek!) using her phone, and plays the piano for them while they dance around and sing along. 

“They’re into Frozen. So I play that ‘Let it Go’ song,” Walsh says. 

“It’s a difficult time for everybody, but kids always make you happier. It certainly brightens our day. I always FaceTime them right away, I don’t know what we’d do without it,” says Walsh. 

Well if that doesn’t just make you want to run straight to the phone… 

Madonna Harrington Meyer, a sociology professor at Syracuse University in New York, says, “All the grandparents in the country are aching, they can’t see their grandchildren.” 

Fran Layton, a 73-year-old lawyer living in Berkley, California, has been dealing with this ache enormously since the start of the pandemic in March when she was no longer able to babysit her grandson,

“I was a mess when he left,” she said. “It’s sadness that we all feel forced apart with children and grandchildren.”

This Grandparents Day, going the extra mile to celebrate your grandparents, is more powerful than ever. Being stuck indoors without visitors and, in many cases, without the ability to even pop out to a shop or two, has made this an incredibly lonely 6 months for many. 

Send a Care Package

Fill it with their favorite things! 

  • Snacks
  • Candies
  • Music
  • Candles
  • A soft fuzzy blanket or camp socks for the upcoming fall season
  • A new sweater in one of their favorite colors!

*Be sure to sanitize everything before sending, of course.*

Surprise them with a custom made flower arrangement delivered right to their doorstep via Contactless Delivery!

Head on over to Lovingly.com, where you’ll get to personalize your design to guarantee your grandparents absolutely love it. 

Sweet Quotes & Card Ideas

First and foremost, write from the heart!

  • Write about a fond memory you share with them.
  • Tell them about the new book you just finished that you think they’d love (include it in your care package too!) 
  • Tell them about your weekend 
  • Tell them about the new Netflix show you just finished

And, of course, tell them how much you miss them, love them, and just can’t wait to see them again. 

We know writing a card message can be pretty hard, check out 5 Tips for Writing Your Next Creative, Spunky, Heartfelt Card Message for more tips & tricks!

A Few Closing Quotes To Spark Some Feels:

“A grandparent is a little bit parent, a little bit teacher, and a little bit best friend.”

“I know you've loved me since I was born, but I've loved you my whole life.” “Grandparents are like stars. You don't always see them, but you know they're there.”

“Grandparents make the world a little softer, a little kinder, and a little warmer.”

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